San Diego Family Portrait Photographer–Sandy and Rod and Zim and Royce and Gia

Filed under : Portraits by Ben and Kirin on 04-09-2011

I have so much respect for photographers who photograph children exclusively. It’s tough. I think it’s tougher than shooting weddings. You can’t reason with most young kids. You can’t explain to a three-year-old that he should stand right there in that patch of light because they way it bounces off the puddle right there lights up their face in such a beautiful way. No. You wait for him to stop sticking his tongue out at you, and then try to catch him as he glances at your camera and smiles, and then runs away. With kids, it’s all about giving up on all of your preconceived ideas about posing and direction, and just go with the flow. Go with their flow. Play with them.

San Diego Wedding Photographer–John and Mary Anne Got Married

Filed under : Weddings by Ben and Kirin on 15-08-2011

John: Quiet. Stoic. Intense–all an act. He’s a big softie and a pretty friendly dude.

Mary Anne: Warm. Earthy. Great, infectious laugh. And apparently she’s too sexy. When I used a photo of her as stock for a design project, it was rejected for being “too provocative.”

You may remember them both from photo-shoots such as, “Mary Anne and John in the Boneyard.”

John + Mary Anne + bridal party + family = one of the best parties we’ve witnessed! We seriously wanted to put our cameras down and jump on the dance floor with everyone. Guests didn’t leave until after last call–and this was on a Sunday night! Afterwards they all took the party to a local bar. Man, where do these people get the energy?

Much love to our talented friend and third camera, Ron Pareja.

Great shot by Kirin of Maid of Honor, Gigi.

“My goodness” shot by Ron.

San Diego Portrait Photographer–My Friend Jon

Filed under : Portraits by Ben and Kirin on 31-07-2011

This is my friend Jon.

He’s a humble guy, self-effacing, quiet, very centered. Jon is the chief psychologist at Paradise Valley Hospital’s Behavioral Health Services where his job is to help people who have become lost within themselves. He’s become one of my heroes.

Jon is heroic to me, not because of some grand financial achievement, or because he won academic or intellectual accolades. He’s a hero because he’s one of the few people I know who had the courage and ability to follow his conscience and do something to help his fellow men and women. The fact that he even has a conscience is a pretty remarkable thing, these days.

One of my favorite definitions of heroism is the willingness to do the decent thing in the face of an absurd world. This fit’s Jon to a T.